Be thankful

As we gathered at the Jaski's on Thanksgiving, we couldn't help but feel the absence of the very important man who was missing from this "guy" photo, and from the lives of so many who love him.

Bob Jaski's legacy, however, was very much apparent. Not just in his sons and grandchildren, but also in the rich traditions and values he taught them.

With polka music sounding from the CD player, the kids clapped and "danced." When an accordion solo was featured, someone invariably shouted, "That's Bumpa's part."

As I reflect on the many blessings I have to be thankful for, it's difficult to focus on the positives rather than the losses. Rather than being sad that Bob is no longer with us, I should be thankful for the many years he welcomed Jeff and the rest of us into his family.